About
Highlights
Barn & Farm Weddings
$4900
Up to 300 guests
Award-Winning Venue
Blame Her Ranch (BHR) has been recognized for its excellence:
- Best Venue in New Mexico by Destination Wedding and Honeymoon Abroad Magazine
- Couple Choice Award 2020 from Wedding Wire
Unique and Personal Experience
Blame Her Ranch is the home of Steve and Linda Blamer. They started hosting weddings after their daughter’s event in 2017.
- Family-Owned: Steve and Linda Blamer’s home
- Origin Story: Began hosting weddings in 2017
- Hospitality: Welcoming couples into their home
Accommodations
BHR provides exceptional facilities for your wedding.
- Guest Capacity: Sleeps 44+ guests
- Versatile Venues: Indoor/outdoor venues for rehearsal dinner, ceremony, reception, or cocktail hour
- Weather Backup: Automatic weather backup without additional fees
Lodging Options
Enjoy a variety of luxurious lodging options.
- Main Lodge and Barn: Spacious and comfortable
- Glamping Options:
- Conestoga Wagons
- Authentic Tipi
- Airstream Bambis
- Luxury Features: High-end furnishings, linens, and decor
Amenities
BHR offers numerous amenities to enhance your stay.
- Sunset Patio: Cliff-front patio with day beds, seating, umbrellas, and a unique fire feature
- Pool and Sauna: Custom-made pool, cliff-front sauna, and cauldron hot tub
- Fitness: Fully equipped gym with Peloton bike and treadmill
- Outdoor Activities: Access to 2,000+ acres and Santa Fe National Forest with ATVs and mountain bikes
Cost Savings
BHR provides flexible and cost-effective options.
- Catering Options: Home cooking, food trucks, outdoor BBQ, or formal sit-down dinner
- Beverage Control: Bar service at your discretion, saving you thousands
- No Hidden Fees: No resort fees, parking, gratuity, or food/beverage charges
- Flexible Event Times: No cutoff times; party until 4 a.m. if you wish
- Free Photo Day: Complimentary 4-hour photo day with your photographer
Packages
Choose the package that best suits your needs.
- Stay Options: 3 or 5+ night stays
- Discounted Glamping: Optional glamping accommodations at a discounted rate
- Affordable Deposit: Only 10% down payment required
Single-Day Events
BHR also offers single-day events during the week.
- Multi-Night Preference: Most couples choose multi-night packages to fully enjoy the BHR experience
Invoicing and Cost Management
BHR provides an optional in-house invoicing program.
- Guest Billing: Directly bill guests to reduce your lodging costs
- Cost Savings: Personal ranch-concierge to help save on catering, music, dance floor, and other costs
Welcoming Atmosphere
BHR offers a warm and welcoming environment.
- No Wedding Planner Required: No requirement to hire a wedding planner
- Personalized Support: Personalized support from the ranch-concierge
- Stunning Views: Enjoy relaxation and a wonderful event experience
Review
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Joseph Davis
A Magical Experience
We chose Blame Her Ranch for its unique charm and breathtaking scenery. The variety of venues allowed us to have a beautiful outdoor ceremony and a cozy indoor reception. Our guests loved the glamping accommodations, and we all enjoyed exploring the expansive property.
Jennifer Williams
The Perfect Wedding Venue!
Our wedding at Blame Her Ranch was an absolute dream. The stunning views, luxurious accommodations, and exceptional amenities made our special day unforgettable. The Blamers were incredibly welcoming and made us feel right at home. Highly recommend!
Faq’s
What awards has Blame Her Ranch received?
Blame Her Ranch has been recognized as the Best Venue in New Mexico by Destination Wedding and Honeymoon Abroad Magazine and received the Couple Choice Award 2020 from Wedding Wire.
What types of venues are available at Blame Her Ranch?
Blame Her Ranch offers four indoor/outdoor venues suitable for rehearsal dinners, ceremonies, receptions, or cocktail hours. These venues also provide an automatic weather backup without additional fees.
Are single-day events available?
Yes, Blame Her Ranch offers single-day events during the week. However, most couples choose multi-night packages to fully enjoy the BHR experience.
Does Blame Her Ranch offer invoicing options?
Yes, Blame Her Ranch provides an optional in-house invoicing program to directly bill guests, reducing your lodging costs.
Is it necessary to hire a wedding planner?
No, Blame Her Ranch does not require you to hire a wedding planner. A personal ranch-concierge is available to help you save on catering, music, dance floor, and other costs.
How can I contact Blame Her Ranch for more information?
You can reach Blame Her Ranch by phone (+1) 575-421-0128 or email steve@blameherranch.com.